Wednesday, September 30. 2009Ondoy shows that emergency is a fact of life
The floods of Typhoon Ondoy were extremely devastating. This time, Ondoy did not choose only the poor and marginalized. For the first time, even exclusive villages were flooded. In many cases, both personal and household items were swept away by the flood.
For most, even if the items are still there, they are no longer usable or cannot even be repaired. So many thought they were going to die and being alive seems to be the greatest blessing of the day. The response to help each other was also overwhelming. Neighbors opened their homes to strangers who needed a second or third floor or even a roof to evacuate to. The sharing of money and food is awesome as we see so many people in the supermarkets buying boxes and boxes of foodstuffs not for themselves but to give away. Soon, the reality of having been caught unprepared for much needed expenses to repair homes, offices, buildings, factories, cars, etc. will settle in. Nobody wants to suffer and certainly nobody wants to be caught unprepared when natural calamities strike our homes and communities. We know these things happen and that they happen with regularity. They are a fact of life and we must accept it and do something about it. And yet, why do so many of us always get caught unprepared? We seem to think that when these calamities strike, we will be spared and that it is the others that will bear the brunt of the problem. It’s never us. We grieve for the victims of Ondoy especially those who had family who lost their lives. Losing them is trial enough but for those who lost their breadwinner, moving forward will be so much more difficult. There are several financial reminders needed while the lessons are fresh in our minds. Reminder on Insurance Ondoy’s devastation should remind us to take a second look at the importance of insurance. Those who have family dependent on them should taking life insurance to somehow lessen the pain of their loss. Term insurance does not cost very much. Another is property insurance, specifically for our home, its contents and our cars. For house insurance, the most common perils that you should cover are fire, typhoon, and earthquake. Fire, in particular, can render one completely devastated because, most of the time, you can lose almost everything permanently including your memories (pictures and mementos). But the floods of Ondoy reminded us that floods can be just as devastating as fire. If you had insurance against typhoon, the losses you incurred with the floods would have been covered. Whether or not you own your house, you can consider covering it with insurance. As always, you do not want to claim on insurance and it is difficult to spend on premium payments because you might feel that you are throwing away money for nothing. After all, you do not get any part of your premium payment back. These premium payments are one hundred percent expenses. However, if you can afford it, it is better to be protected. If you don’t own your house, you can cover the contents of your house like furniture, equipment and personal effect. If you do own your house, you should be covered as well for the house itself. Coverage means that if the items covered are damaged by the perils covered, the insurance company pays. While you do not really recover the real things that matter after a fire or typhoon or earthquake, at least the insurance payment will help you buy back some of it and replace to a great extent the physical assets damaged or lost. Word of caution though, read the fine print in your insurance document to make sure you are really covered for what you want. Car insurance has many types of coverage. The most common are for third party liability, theft, and own damage. Insurance coverage for the devastation type by Ondoy must specifically be defined in the policy acquired. As a minimum, it should cover the cost of restoring your car damaged by floods or typhoons. Car accidents can be painful physically to the people involved. It also involves a lot of reporting, documentation with the police and other authorities. However, it becomes even more troublesome it you are not insured. If you own a car, insurance is one of the required costs of ownership. Reminder: Set up cash reserves for personal emergencies One of the very first rules about money management is to pay yourself first so that you can set aside at least six months salary or earnings precisely to cover emergencies. For most income earners, it takes years to build up a six-month cash reserves. If you save ten percent of your monthly earnings, it will take you five (5) years to accumulate six months cash reserves for emergencies. Practically speaking though, there are faster ways to accumulate this goal. For those who did not lose all their assets in the flood, one way is to dispose of some assets we may have acquired and which we do not really get to use today. I am sure, most of us have some idle assets that we can sell and convert to cash now. Look around you. Make an inventory of things like appliances we have more than what we need, e.g. an extra TV, radio, excess furniture, clothes, gadgets, electronic “toys”, etc. Have a good look at these possessions and choose what you can afford to dispose of now. Chances are, losing some of these assets will not diminish or hurt your present lifestyle. Selling theses assets will most certainly contribute to building up cash reserves for emergencies right away. Get started and build your personal cash reserve now! Do not procrastinate. One of these days, it may be too late and you will no longer be able to recover from your emergency losses. Check our websites www.colaycofoundation.com and now www.onewealthynation.com to help you get started. Tuesday, September 22. 2009Parents without money
I received this comment from “Boy Kamote” on a previous blog when I wrote about how we should teach our children about money.
“Sir sa mga nasabi o nabangit po ninyo ay sang ayon po ako..sa mga may kaya at panggitnang klasipikasyon na mga magulang ay maari nga nilang ipasunod sa kanilang mga anak... paano nakapagtatabi ang isang tao para sa ibang bagay kung hindi naman sasapat sa isa man lang....yun kalidad na bibilin sa palagay niyo po ba makapamili pa kung alin ang maganda at mura.matibay at may pangalan...paano magiging wise ang isang bata sa pamimili kung hindi niya nga kayang bilhin..o ang dungisin ay papasok sa isang mall nanglilimahid sa dumi at amoy siya bay papasukin hindi diba..alam ko poy kagalang galang at matalino, eh ito po lamang ay isang opinyon sa isang sabihin natin na di naman tayo pantay ng antas ng talino at pamumuhay…paano naman po ang mga magulang na ala man lang pera na maipapakitang ehemplo sa kanilang mga anak....yung mga anak na ala pa sa tamang edad ay naghahanapbuhay na para kumita. Kung ikaw na magulang ng ganun bata ano sasabihin mo pa ba o ipapaaral sa kanila ang mga sinasabi mo…baka sagutin ka ng wag mo akong pakialaman...buti sana kung sobra o sapat ang kinikita pero hindi eh salat na salat pa para sa sikmura...nakalungkot man pong isipin yan ay isang bantad na katotohanan…ano ba ang dapat na isaisip pag ikaw ay may pera para sa isang simple at mahirap na magulang...di ba’t ang mapakain mo ang iyong pamilya ng may lasa lasang pagkain…at pag sila’y nas hapag na ng kainan ang masilayan mo silang masaya habang ninanamnam ang konting biyaya na napagsasaluhan…ano ba ang pakiramdam di ba’t nakapagpagaan ng kalooban di bale ng ala kang naitabi at masasabi mo sa iyong sarili na bahala na bukas at sanay palarin na naman na makahanap ng pera para may maipangtustos sa pang araw-araw...” Related to this same article is a comment from “Sam” who says: “The best lesson you’ll give your child is about sharing money. Command it, not money commanding you!” Boy Kamote is right that the advice I give are really for people who are earning some money. This is my chosen advocacy because of my life experiences that I can share. It is what I know best so I choose to share this. But more than this, my advocacy calls for the elimination of a “mindset of entitlement.” This is the attitude that makes people believe that they have the right to demand “help” from the government, their communities and their churches without having to work for it and thus deserve it. They grow up with the misplaced value that money is given, not earned. What Sam said is also correct. However, we can only share what we have. Otherwise, we will not be sharing anything worthwhile. This is where I come from. We need to teach everyone about the need to earn, save, make your savings grow, and share the savings they have grown with others. I teach that as long as we are earning some regular income, we can save. The savings may be minimal but if we have the discipline and determination, we can aspire for greater savings over time. After all, we have so many examples of people who rose from almost nothing into very successful people. I agree that some people are so poor that they cannot even buy food for their children. Such cases are very complex and there are people who choose to help in working on advocacies related to this. Let me just say that for those who have not enough, they still have their intellect and will. Money and all things material are mere creation from ideas. For as long as we are alive, we can think and create good things for us, provided we have the right mindset, the will to improve our lives. I agree that it is natural that we want to be able to give the best food, shelter, clothing, and everything that our family needs. I agree that if we have nothing, it is tempting to give them a moment of joy and forget about tomorrow. But I don’t agree that we should give or spend without thinking of tomorrow. It is an obligation not only to provide but also to leave something for tomorrow. “Bahala na” is the worst mindset to live by! There are people who have risen from the poorest of the poor and made something of themselves. If we go by the thinking of Boy Kamote, that is not possible. But it does happen so it is not just a matter of money; it is an attitude and mindset inculcated in the children. I think that the parents or guardians of such children taught them good VALUES from the time they were small. Values most important are respect, honesty, integrity, resourcefulness, sincerity, discipline, determination, decisiveness, sharing and others. If my child were to reply to me in a manner like “wag mo akong pakialaman...buti sana kung sobra o sapat ang kinikita pero hindi eh salat na salat pa para sa sikmura,” I think I would consider myself a failure in teaching my child many of the said virtues. Since Boy Kamote wrote in Tagalog, here is a Tagalog translation: Tama si Boy Kamote na talaga namang para nga sa mga kumikita ng pera ang mga payo ko. Ito ang pinili kong adbokasiya dahil na rin sa aking mga karanasan. Ito ang alam ko nang husto kaya’t ito ang pinili kong ibahagi. Mas mahalaga ay ang aking adbokasiya na dapat ibasura natin ang pananaw na may utang sa atin ang ating gobiyerno at ating komunidad kung kaya dapat sila ay mag bigay ng tulong kung tayo ang may pangangailangan. Itama natin itong pananaw na ito sa isang saloobin na ang tulong galing kaninoman ay dapat karapat-dapat sa tumatanggap. Tumpak rin ang sinabi ni Sam. Ngunit, maari lang nating ibahagi ang meron tayo. Kailangan nating turuan ang lahat tungkol sa pangangailangang kumita, mag-ipon, magpalago ng naipon, at magbahagi ng biyaya sa kapwa. Lagi kong sinasabi na hangga’t kumikita tayo, maari tayong mag-ipon. Maaring maliit lamang ang ipon ngunit sa tulong ng disiplina at determinasyon, tiyak na lalago ang ipon. Sa katunayan, napakaraming tao na ang nagtagumpay bagama’t nagsimula sa wala. Totoong may mga taong lubos ang karukhaan na kahit pagkain na lamang ay hindi nila maipagkaloob sa mga anak. Masalimuot ang mga kasong ganito at may mga tao at ibang grupo na nagtataguyod ng mga adbokasiyang kaugnay dito. Ngunit tandaan na bagama’t kapos sa pera, may taglay pa rin tayong karunungan at pagpapasya. Ang pera at mga materyal na bagay ay pawang mga likha lamang ng karunungan at ideya. Hangga’t tayo’y nabubuhay, maari tayong mag-isip at lumikha ng mga bagay na ikabubuti natin, basta’t may tamang pag-iisip (mindset), at ang kagustuhan o pagpapasya (will) na paunlarin ang ating buhay. Sumasang-ayon ako na likas lamang na maghangad ng pinakamainam na pagkain, tirahan, damit at iba pang pangangailangan para sa pamilya. Nauunawaan ko rin na kapag tayo’y kapos, natutukso tayong piliin ang panandaliang ginhawa at kalimutan ang pangangailangan sa kinabukasan. Ngunit hindi tayo dapat gumastos nang hindi iniisip ang ating kinabukasan. Obligasyon natin na mag-iwan para sa kinabukasan! Wala tayong mararating kung ipinagkakatiwala ang ating kinabukasan sa “Bahala na”! May mga taong nagtagumpay bagama’t nanggaling sa labis-labis na kahirapan. Kung paparisan ang pag-iisip ni Boy Kamote, hindi posible ang ganitong tagumpay. Dahil marami na ang umasenso mula sa kahirapan, masasabing hindi lamang pera ang kailangan, napakahalaga rin ng tamang pag-iisip (mindset) at pagpapasya (will) na naituro sa mga bata. Sa tingin ko, ang mga umasenso mula sa kahirapan ay iyong mga naturuan ng tamang pagpapahalaga (values) habang sila’y bata pa. Ang mga mahahalagang maituturo sa mga bata ay ang: paggalang, katapatan, integridad, pagiging maparaan, sinseridad, disiplina, determinasyon, maagap na pagpapasya, pagbabahagi at iba pa. Kapag sinagot ako ng aking anak ng “wag mo akong pakialaman...buti sana kung sobra o sapat ang kinikita pero hindi eh salat na salat pa para sa sikmura”, sa tingin ko’y nabigo akong ituro sa kaniya ang mga tamang pagpapahalaga. Nagpapatuloy ng libreng seminar na itinataguyod ng CFE, SM Malls, PLDT, Universal Motors UrVan, KSK Coop at iba pa tuwing Sabado, 4-6pm, sa: Sept. 26 SM Marilao, Oct 3 – SMCity Pampanga; SM Lucena Oct 17; SM Baguio – Oct 24. Sa mga nangangailangan ng mas malalim na pagsusuri ng kanilang kalagayang pinansyal at ng mga legal na retail investment options, mayroon kaming mga seminar para sa inyo. Mangyari lang tumawag kay Ms. Grace sa 637-3741 o 6373731.
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